One of the biggest things that has helped me not fall into these patterns as easily as I use to has been cultivating an independent life that I love on my own. I no longer see relationships as the answer to my problems. They should add to my life, not complete it. Once I began finding a sense of joy and satisfaction in my own life, I was able to deter myself from following these sorts of attractions. I don’t need to chase someone else, I have myself.
Above The Middle
Thank you for sharing this article, Joe. Very nicely conveyed.