If You Can’t Blend In With The Crowd
Some years back, I had this wrong notion that people would love to hear me out if I intervened during conversations, and it is okay to try to blend in with the crowd. Some of us can’t. I couldn’t as well if I forcibly tried to be part of a group.
There should be a rapport, comfort level, and knowing people, or you should have this ability to blend in with the people around you. I would feel awkward and guilty if I couldn’t initiate conversations or if people made fun of me.
With time, I realized that there was nothing wrong with me. I’m like this. Perhaps I lacked this ability to make friends with everybody, and that’s completely okay.
We all have our individualities and can just be ourselves. Nothing wrong with that. I am happy being myself.
— A.H. Mehr
