One fine morning, a stranger (now my handsome husband) asked me, ‘Excuse me, “May I ask you- what is bothering you?”’ I replied, ‘A question that is constantly hammering me over the last couple of years, and I could not find any answer-the question is: “WHY ME?”’ Being a gentleman, he asked nothing else to know further detail. Without asking anything else, he gave me a simple answer to that question. He said.’ I think, um … probably the answer is “SO WHAT?”’ Immediately, I was lit up and smiled. Yes, I could fit this ‘SO WHAT?’ as satisfying answers for almost every possible question that blocked my thoughts.